
Born & raised in Calgary, graduated from Hotel & Restaurant Management at SAIT in 1998. In 1999, Patricia developed her hospitality consulting company PMK Consulting and has since assisted several hotels and restaurants with service excellence, marketing and cost effectiveness. In August of 2000 Il Sogno opened as what was considered at the time a forward thinking/ cosmopolitan Italian dining room. Introducing Calgarians to the ‘new’ Italy: the young generation of Italian food & beverage professionals, combining that with the passion she has for being raised in Calgary: what she calls “one of the best cities in the world” has given local Calgarians the chance to enjoy a world class restaurant right here in Calgary. Her ambition and desire for excellence in the food and beverage industry has brought many young chef’s, servers, and sommeliers through the doors of Il Sogno and has inspired them to make their own mark on the Calgary dining scene. Patricia’s goal has always been to have Il Sogno serve as a place of trust that allows for memorable moments to be shared amongst diners.
Well, Well, Well…its August…can you believe it? Where, tell me, where does the time go? I know you probably don’t want to hear this, but that means that there are only four months until Christmas!!! Isn’t it crazy how time flies?
This month, I am going to talk about inspiration, celebration and “the table”. In my opinion; one of the two, if not both should occur at “the table”, every single day. Afterall, it is the reason why I blog about this fabulous city and the great places it has to visit, dine and enjoy a glass. It is also, by the way, is the reason why I opened a restaurant.
Ironically or not, Il Sogno (the restaurant in Bridgeland) celebrates its anniversary in August and this year it will be 10 years old!!! For those of you who are thinking to yourselves…really? 10Years? I thought it would have only been 5? Or Wow! Because, in the restaurant business, those years are like “dog years” and yes that means that I am 70 years old!!! Well maybe not, but some days I definitely feel like it. Yes, the answer is 10 Years and as I gear up to “celebrate” this anniversary, I naturally find myself in a reflective and very nostalgic frame of mind, which in turn got me to thinking about “the table” and its significance or lack of in this day.
I grew up in a half European, half rural Albertan household…yes I am very lucky. “The table” was one of the most important places in our home growing up and still is today. It was the place that the family gathered whether we wanted to or not to start our day and end it. I refer to it now as “the canvas” to which you have the ability to create moments that will last forever with whomever you share it. Hopeless romantic perhaps, but don’t kid yourself the moments are not always happy, but they still occur and everyone who sits around “the table” should know that it matters that you are there.
Here are my questions; is “the table” any less important today? Doesn’t the idea of sharing a glass, a meal and a great conversation provide some grounding and/or substance to our day? Does the time it takes to prepare a great meal, open a good bottle or entertain our good friends and family in our homes or at a great restaurant equate the lasting memories that may result from it? Are we all so busy and perhaps on autopilot, that the table has become secondary and perhaps an inconvenience? As much of an inconvenience perhaps, as the importance of the food that we put on it and the time we spend around it? I would love to hear what you think? Don’t get me wrong, for some the thought of sharing a glass with some members of our family is painful, I get it. Or having to sit across from our bosses, parents or significant others to ”share” what we are really thinking, invasive and terrifying, but really what other basic need do we all share that can bring us together this easily? I mean not everybody likes golf! And maybe, just maybe, we need to communicate more? What do you think?
When I was growing up the meal WAS the occasion; with madatory breakfast which was always better on the weekends, often lunch and ALWAYS dinner. Why can’t the meal itself be an occasion? The act of sitting down together to share and validate the day no matter how insignificant you may think it was. I am lucky enough to have had and still have amazing chefs in my life, where I am pretty sure a conversation about a tomato can last for hours, not joking. They are constantly thinking about the food that inspires them and can most likely remember the moment they sat at “the table” and had the most amazing meal to which that very tomato made an appearance. The Italian ladies that have worked withme for years at the restaurant, talk about the dinners they made the night before as if it was both news worthy and epic EVERYDAY, yes everyday, like a summer Blockbuster! I am also lucky enough to have grown up in a house where at breakfast; my mother would ask everyone what we would like for dinner, because it was that important to how she planned her day and in turn how we ended ours.
Whether you stay in and or dine out, the meal is still very much a key factor in the occasion, don’t underestimate the value to which you choose. It can be a children’s birthday party at Chuck E. Cheese, Bullwinkles or Boston Pizza. Or perhaps a quick bite at Earls, Joeys or the Cactus club before a movie? Something a little more business appropriate or romantic in which case; Il Sogno, Catch, Rouge,Teatro, River Café, or Le Chaumiere might fit the bill. What about catching up with an old friend over a great glass of wine and some share plates from Una, Kensington wine bar and A.K.A? Celebrate that mom nor dad have to cook tonight and all of you randomly choose a place you have never been but have always wanted to try like the brand new Notable by Michael Noble in Bowness…because there is inspiration and sharing in trying new things too!
In my ten years at Il Sogno, I have witnessed; Entertaining friends from out of town, birthdays, anniversaries, graduations, sending kids off to college and welcoming them home, bon voyage dinners for friends who have been transferred, marriage proposals, break ups, retirements, weddings, Christmas parties, memorials, business interviews, deals being made, deals being broken and the closing dinners that result. I have seen tears, anger, laughter, love and compromise all across “the table”. Lucky me!
There is a reason why they call it “soul food” and so many reasons why we need it…so do yourself a favor and create a moment across “the table” you might be surprised what happens when you are paying attention to who is sitting there, what you are eating and the endless possibilities that are placed before you.
Buon Apetito!
Patricia Koyich – Owner of Il Sogno: http://www.ilsogno.org/